• we are all alone – we are all related at the same time – sometimes we meet, sometimes we don’t
  • told through disco – Donna Summer, Diana Ross
  • death of disco 1979 – by rock and anti disco movement
  • Stuck on you – Davinia Hewlett
  • not knowingness
  • making love
  • rub
  • throb
  • realness – Paris is burning reelness – video – what is realness – you can be real if you pass
  • the progress of love couldn’t catch death
  • Sophie Calle -filmed last moments of mother’s death
  • Amateuraism
  • Fragility and fragidity – Fassbinder films – (women ‘think’) – characters ‘look’ at and are looking – looks at exclusion – ways it’s shot – creates rigidity
  • Tod Haynes – ‘Far from Heaven’ – freezes and looks evoke fragility, tension – “only one in the room feeling”
  • Perfection – Felix Gonzales Torres – clocks piece, dancing man in gallery
  • Foreigner – the other